Chor Pek Kong
(The family's ancestral saint)
I was brought up as a Buddhist with the usual disciplines of Taoism, Confucianism and more than the six of the best thrown in. I started to lapse in my belief in God during 9/11 and ultimately gave him up when the Beslan disaster took place. But one thing that’s been ingrained in me is the Confucian virtue of filial piety; in short an absolute and interminable respect for my parents and ancestors. As the McCartney’s song goes; When I find myself in times of trouble or in my hour of darkness I turn to my Dad, Grandad and the good chap above. By resolutely believing in their spirits; words of wisdom and the proverbial get out jail card are always granted on me. Religions cause too much dependency for anyone and I can’t deny the fact that my conviction echoes that. Ancestral worship without a belief in God is my religion and I don’t speak for my Mum, my daughter, my brothers or my relatives. Let it be.
(The family's ancestral saint)
I was brought up as a Buddhist with the usual disciplines of Taoism, Confucianism and more than the six of the best thrown in. I started to lapse in my belief in God during 9/11 and ultimately gave him up when the Beslan disaster took place. But one thing that’s been ingrained in me is the Confucian virtue of filial piety; in short an absolute and interminable respect for my parents and ancestors. As the McCartney’s song goes; When I find myself in times of trouble or in my hour of darkness I turn to my Dad, Grandad and the good chap above. By resolutely believing in their spirits; words of wisdom and the proverbial get out jail card are always granted on me. Religions cause too much dependency for anyone and I can’t deny the fact that my conviction echoes that. Ancestral worship without a belief in God is my religion and I don’t speak for my Mum, my daughter, my brothers or my relatives. Let it be.
Warning, this post includes some graphic shots of animal butchery that may prove too gruesome for the fainthearted.
The game of Mah Jong is played whenever and wherever, be it weddings, Chinese New Year, funerals or religious festivals. Excuses are plentiful when this form of gambling is considered. No Chinese person (except for those brought up in the West) would ever play the game without the vital accessory that's money; it would be too pointless!
Richard with his winning hand.
Just in case you're wondering, I can't play...Mum never taught me for obvious reasons.
Richard with his winning hand.
Just in case you're wondering, I can't play...Mum never taught me for obvious reasons.
This was one of the six pigs that has been slaughtered earlier.
It's quite unnerving to observe how similar the skin is to us humans.
It's quite unnerving to observe how similar the skin is to us humans.
The Chinese have their meals comparatively early, brekkie at 7AM, lunch at noon and dinner pronto at 6pm; for some reason or the other we always seem to be in a rush!
Hai Yun
Or Sea Cloud in English; she's the redoubtable tour guide that the family have been relying on for years whenever they visit China. She's accompanied them from Urumqi to Shanghai. Tibet is probably the only place in China my Mum and her siblings haven't been to. Give Hai Yun a problem and she'll always fix it!
Or Sea Cloud in English; she's the redoubtable tour guide that the family have been relying on for years whenever they visit China. She's accompanied them from Urumqi to Shanghai. Tibet is probably the only place in China my Mum and her siblings haven't been to. Give Hai Yun a problem and she'll always fix it!
Most of the villagers here are farmers and the above was nice enough to let us interfere with his work.
Uncle 9
The youngest of Mum's siblings, she has thirteen of them. Like Uncle 8, they both went to Japanese universities and are suitably bilingual. If I ever have aspirations to write a Wild Swans on the family then I'll need to consult him as he is the only one who bothered to chronicle the tree. Unfortunately the knowledge he has amassed is also in his head; I need to spend some time with him soon.
The youngest of Mum's siblings, she has thirteen of them. Like Uncle 8, they both went to Japanese universities and are suitably bilingual. If I ever have aspirations to write a Wild Swans on the family then I'll need to consult him as he is the only one who bothered to chronicle the tree. Unfortunately the knowledge he has amassed is also in his head; I need to spend some time with him soon.
10 comments:
The photos and your comments are enjoyable.
I did not mind the photos, my grandfather used to prepare rabbits and pork and I usually assisted.
LOL at the gambling, I'd have insisted to be taught.
Thanks again and hopefully there's more to come.
thora- The Chinese are natural gamblers and that's dangerous enough! It's going to take me at least another month to wrap this blog up...the urge to is sadly lacking!
I must be a Chinese then, I'm a natural gambler as well. Controlled natural gambler :-)
Patiently waiting for the next post, and waiting and waiting ...
Thora- I know there are ghost writers but; 'An equivalent! an equivalent! my kingdom for a ghost blogger!' Post coming this week ;)
It's this week. ;)
Two weeks.
Yep, Bronte is right! (we will not give up!)
Your so lazy... Seriously. It's been like 6 weeks.
Hmm..it's more than a month now, cuz..when are you posting more??..want to see more of what you've been snapping away when we were there!!!
What happened to this blog? You surely spent more than 3 days in China?!
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